In Memoriam Houston

I was very inspired by Joshua Ledet’s version of “It’s a Man’s World” by James Brown and I knew if I could get the same level of emotion out of Houston, it would be an act that would bring the house down. With the help of our choreographer Brooklyn Jai, we collaborated on something very special. With the talent level at Hollywood Men, it’s hard to be the closing act but that’s the spot Houston earned and I can’t get the image of his performance out of my head. I am truly heartbroken that the world has lost such a talented and kind hearted person. My sincere condolences for his family and especially his children. Jay Bowdy, may your soul rest in peace and may God forgive you and welcome you into his kingdom.

I wish we had more time to have fun together brother. Your way to say “Dreee is in the building” will stay with me forever. Rest In Peace.

Saturday night was the last time we will laugh together, until we meet again. We had some good times. Gonna miss you bro.

I want to remember him out everybody remembers him just a fun-loving dude that just love life. He was one of the only guys that I’ve hung out with outside of the show and I had such a fun time with them seriously he was like a brother from another mother one of those kind of connections that you just kind of click with and I think he kind of had that with everybody which is what made him so special is he had different connections with each guy and each one was a special connection he’s really going to be missed and he will definitely not be forgotten and I just want to celebrate Spirit such an amazing dude.

Just being boys back stage and on stage and outside the show on the few opportunities I got with him he was a very positive man and a great role model for young kids and our youth.. I remember he was a huge cowboy fan and me being a football fan we would always go back and forth if the cowboys were going to win or not.. Great guy nice having by my side getting ready next to me he will be missed dearly, Christian Grey…

He will be remembered always, and he will be missed by all. See you on the other side my friend.

My deepest condolences to all his family may he rest in peace.

It pains me to know that he is no longer here with us but his light and presence will shine and live on forever. Even though his time was short lived at the show he made a huge impact with the time he was there. I’m going to miss his energy, his friendship and the ability he had to put a smile on anyone’s face. I miss you and will never forget you Brotha.

Jay (Houston) you may have needed a break from this world but you are always going to be remembered and just because we can’t see you doesn’t mean your not with us! I still hear your load ass happy voice greeting me as you get to work late. Haha! Brother we will keep your memory strong and learn to except what has happened as we grow stronger & become closer because of you. #thehollywoodmen

Five minutes with Jay, and I would leave laughing, feeling happy. He is a beautiful soul. And I will miss my friend every day…

I first met Houston through our Adonis Lounge shows as he came in looking for a job dancing. Upon meeting him I hired him immediately and after working with him for a few months I thought he would be a great fit for the Hollywood Men shows so I sent him over for a meeting there and he was basically hired on the spot.
Houston always had such a positive and laid back vibe, always seeming to be that cool low key guy in the bunch. I remember sending him out on his very first booking to do a private bachelorette party and worrying a bit how he would handle it, but he just gave me that cool smile and said something to the effect of “Nah, don’t worry man, I got this, piece of cake.” And that was Houston, just always that cool character ready to handle things in a smooth, suave, cool style.
I personally will certainly miss Houston and his great smile and overall energy. It is always tragic when our friends pass so early in life, but our memories of them keep them close at heart for eternity.
We will miss you Houston.

His smile and positive energy was infectious and lit up the room every time he walked through the door. Every dancer, server, and bartender of The Hollywood Men admired Houston as he was always smiling and cracking jokes. Even though he was a lead dancer, he respected everybody equally and was a great leader for the team. He was loved by all of us like a brother.
My fondest memories of Houston was performing with him on stage as we would constantly be smiling and laughing while we danced for our audiences. Backstage was no different as it was a show in itself as Houston was always a comedian never allowing a moment go by without cracking a joke. I knew every night showing up to the show that Houston and I were going to smile cheek to cheek and laugh the night away. He was so friendly and charming with everyone he came across.
Every moment with Houston felt like a party whether it be at a restaurant, walking the street or driving the car with the man. The man would frequently make me laugh so hard I would cry.
Taking the train home with him every night after the show was a pleasure. Houston and I would exchange sport stories as we both played college and professional sports before we were dancers. We would meet random people on the train, and made it a point to brighten their day if we saw they were having a rough one. Houston always spoke on how much he loved and cared his kids, as Houston had a heart of gold and was kind to everyone.
Houston had many talents and unique gifts that will be missed, but he is at a better place now and an angel for us all. He was never selfish and always put the team first. I will miss my brother from another mother, I love the extraordinary man and will cherish all our great memories together. I will take his smile and laughter with me on my journies. Thank you for all the great time brother, you are a simply a gift from God and I have been blessed to have you in my life. I am truly grateful for our friendship and brotherhood.
I love you brother, and I know you will be watching over me until I see you again.

I would always say “Houston has landed”, you would say “Houston has arrived, yes he has, girls are in for a treat! Its hard to believe you are gone, you were to young and had to much talent to leave this earth so soon. As a father I know your children will miss you the most. I love my daughter and family so much your passing has brought me closer to them, making realize we are only here for a short time and we should live everyday to the fullest.
Rest in peace my friend.